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Virtual/Online Sessions

Burnout & Self-Abandonment Pattern Audit

For the woman who keeps overriding herself and calling it being responsible.

2 hr
444 British pounds
Virtual Session (Google Meet)

Service Description

A focused 2-hour deep dive for women who are exhausted from over-functioning, people-pleasing, holding everything together, and abandoning themselves in the name of being “good,” “easy,” “helpful,” “responsible,” or “fine.” This is for the woman who keeps saying yes when her body says no. Who over-explains simple decisions. Who feels guilty for having needs. Who ignores her own limits until her body forces her to stop. Who keeps performing calm, capable and low-maintenance while quietly feeling resentful, depleted, overwhelmed or disconnected from herself. In this session, we look at the pattern underneath the burnout. Not just what you’re doing, but why you keep doing it. Where you learned to override yourself. Where your boundaries are slipping. Where your energy is leaking. Where you’re carrying responsibilities that were never fully yours. And where your nervous system has confused self-abandonment with safety. This is not about becoming colder, harsher, or less caring. It’s about helping you stop betraying yourself to keep everything around you stable. Together, we’ll map the behavioural and emotional loop keeping you stuck: the people-pleasing, guilt, over-responsibility, avoidance, resentment, emotional labour, exhaustion, and the quiet ways you leave yourself behind. You’ll leave with a clearer understanding of your pattern, what needs to change, where to reclaim your energy, and how to begin making decisions from self-trust instead of guilt, fear, obligation or burnout. Ideal for: People-pleasing, burnout, emotional exhaustion, boundary struggles, family dynamics, work overwhelm, over-functioning, resentment, guilt, nervous system dysregulation, self-abandonment, and feeling disconnected from your own needs. Includes: - Pre-Session Pattern Audit Form - 2 Hour Pattern Audit via Google Meet - Personalised Integration Plan with reflections, pattern notes, and next steps


Get in touch:

  • hannah@thatspicywoowoo.com


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To maintain the depth and integrity of this work, I operate via a structured intake process. This form is the first step in auditing your current objectives and identifying the specific behavioural patterns you are ready to resolve.

I will personally review your submission, and if your current objectives align, I will reach out with the next steps. 

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